#43 Shari Ship on Donating Her Kidney to Son

Shari Ship's story is a remarkable tale of a mother's unwavering love and sacrifice for her son. As a widow and caregiver to her 97-year-old mother, Shari selflessly donated a kidney to her son Zachary, who was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease called membranous nephropathy that attacked his kidneys. Despite the challenges of caring for her ailing husband who passed away from lung cancer, Shari remained steadfast in her commitment to her family.

 

When Zachary's condition worsened, leading to end-stage renal failure, Shari made the courageous decision to become a living kidney donor for her son. With the support of her 85-year-old mother and the compassionate medical team, Shari underwent a rigorous testing process, including a psychiatric evaluation, to ensure her eligibility as a donor.

 

The transplant surgery was a success, despite a last-minute scare, and Zachary's life was saved. Shari endured the pain and recovery process with determination, fueled by the immense love for her son. Zachary's immediate improvement, from "drowning in his own fluid" to urinating normally, was a testament to the transformative power of this selfless act.

 

Shari’s inspiring story highlights the strength of a mother's love, the resilience of the human spirit, and the profound impact of organ donation in saving lives. Her unwavering support and her son's remarkable recovery serve as a beacon of hope for families facing similar challenges.

 

Key Lessons

 

• Shari Ship's selfless act of donating a kidney to her son Zachary, who later became visually impaired.

 

• Shari's courageous decision to donate her own kidney when Zachary's condition worsened, demonstrating her unwavering commitment to her son's well-being.

 

• The family's resilience and the power of a parent's love, as evidenced by Zachary being described as "indomitable" despite the challenges they faced.

 

Please help support Shari’s son Zachary by making a donation for his team’s travel funds so they can compete in 2024 World Baseball Softball Confederation’s (WBSC) Blind Baseball International Cup taking place just outside of London. The United States Blind Baseball Association (USBBA) is a charitable, non-profit corporation. USBBA is dedicated to the development, management, regulation and promotion of our mixed gender adaptive sport of Blind Baseball.

If you are able to assist us in our 2024 fundraising efforts, please make checks payable to U.S. Blind Baseball Association, and mail to the address below or use these QR codes on our website (ithappenedtomepod.com) to send money through Venmo or PayPal. 

U.S. Blind Baseball Association
P.O. Box 312
Lindenhurst, NY 11757

Another resource we want to highlight is organdonor.gov, where you can learn more about organ donation.

In the next new episode of “It Happened To Me” we interview Shari’s son Zachary about his perspective on the experience about his health issues. In the meantime, you can listen to our previous episodes on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, streaming on the website, or any other podcast player by searching, “It Happened To Me”. 

 

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